Written by Ken Bernock | Create a strong connection.
When we’re looking into the many screens surrounding us we’re looking for a strong connection.
The stronger the connection you have with someone or some group; the more powerful the flow can be.
This is why 1,000 true equals are stronger than 1,000 true fans. There’s a deeper connection. True equals can give you more in return.
As @lex_garey stated in her latest video “it’s our brains that are flowing through the Internet looking to be connected.”
When you meet someone F2F you’re not just syncing brains, but your entire body. This is why F2F connection is much stronger.
You first have to be able to connect brains, and then move towards connection of your bodies.
It has to be a deep connection; where you feed off one another, speak the same language, and have the same interests. It’s a partnership that must add value and challenge you.
If they can’t keep up with you, or you feel they’re slowing you down, you need to break the connection and move on to the next.
I’m starting to have trouble connecting with people still on Facebook and people who don’t have an iPhone.
People are going to help other people advance to other areas we haven’t been before. One to steer and one to navigate through space and time. You need this connection to help you move forward.
They might not be physically present while you’re on your journey, but you need them to help prepare you for lift off.
If you’re too advanced or powerful you’re going to blow their minds and they might not be able to recover. This is not a good connection. There are different speeds of flow; one who can connect with a faster flow doesn’t necessarily match up with one who can’t handle the same speed.
When you have a great connection with a group of people it generates a massive flow of information. They can help with cutting through the noise and finding the next signal.
We’re connected through the flow, this is how we find each other. We need to be on the same signal, using the same advanced tools.
There are going to be points in time when two people have a great connection and make major progress together; but like any partnership, sometimes it’s best to part ways.
One might want to explore another source of flow while the other does not. Maybe one has made more advances while the other is keeping him from the next Net.
You need to recognize this and make your move. The same rules apply for groups and tribes of equals. When you joined, you were an equal. All
individuals don’t advance at the same speed and time.
Is there ever too strong of a connection that works against you?
Searching for a connection is not new, it’s just becoming more vital as time speeds up.
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